This is because I find this picture more masculine and more what a 'daddy' or 'bear' is about than a 1,000 dour leatherman or profile pictures...it's not about posturing for me, it's about caring and love.
(And paradoxically those who are not obsessed about being 'butch' and just are themselves come off the most natural, and masculine, at least for me...)
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Date: 2006-05-16 10:20 am (UTC)This is because I find this picture more masculine and more what a 'daddy' or 'bear' is about than a 1,000 dour leatherman or profile pictures...it's not about posturing for me, it's about caring and love.
(And paradoxically those who are not obsessed about being 'butch' and just are themselves come off the most natural, and masculine, at least for me...)